Kenny Chesney on Regrets

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Regrets are the one thing I believe most people live with in one way or another.” Chesney allows. “Everybody lives with it, because we all have times in our life when we didn’t take the extra step, didn’t go out on that limb – whether it was asking that one girl out or standing up for something we believed in. Whatever it is …so you wonder what if? And you wonder what it would have felt like. Kenny Chesney

Kenny Chesney opened up his heart and spoke about regrets. I identify with what he says about regretting the times I did not take the extra step, did not go out on a limb. This has definitely happened to you. I think it is time for you to look back. I think you need to consider the times you did not take that extra step. There are probably a lot of reasons why you did not go out on a limb. Maybe even good reasons. Yet despite those reasons there is still regret. What does this say about you. It says that despite your reasons you still wonder, “what might have been?”

When you have this review what part does shyness play in these regrets? Perhaps it is a big part. Doesn’t that mean it is time to do something about your shyness? Doesn’t it mean your shyness is getting in your way? It is one thing for your shyness to get in your way. It is another thing to regret it. Getting in your way may be transitory. Regretting it stays with you. Regrets can color your life. Regrets can become a focus of your life. Regrets can become a part of your current life.

It is up to you to determine if your shyness is causing you to live a life of regret. If it is then your next step is determine what you can do about it. There are steps you can take to overcome your shyness. Try some of them and see how they go. Give yourself time to see if they work. Remember – do not get discouraged. If one technique is not working try another one. No matter how it goes keep thinking about regrets. Keep asking yourself if you want any more regrets in your life.

Marcia, Your Confidence Coach

PS Comments and questions are always welcome

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