I am a kind person. Shy people contact me and tell me about their struggles. I am empathetic. I am caring. I am sympathetic. But am I being helpful?
Perhaps it is time I told you to stop whining. Perhaps it is time I told you to either do something about your shyness or just live with it and stop obsessing over it.
Perhaps it is time I told you that the complaining, whining, obsessing, and the ”I can’t help myself attitudee” is over. I don’t want to hear about it anymore. Perhaps it is time you sang a new tune.
Perhaps those close to you are tired of hearing your laments. Aren’t you tired of boring people with your problems?
Most of all aren’t you tired of it? Aren’t you tired of missing out? Aren’t you tired of turningg people off? Aren’t you tired of the suffering? Aren’t you tired of the struggling?
How tired are you? How displeased are you?
Take some action. Let others know there is another side to you. Dispel the myth you created about yourself. Stop hiding. Blossom.
Marcia, Your Confidence Coach
